Marry and Islam

23-12-2014 20:26

 

 

Well, since long time i dont write. I had many exams, projects and not time to stop for a while and think about what can i do. My holidays start now and i have many ideas, and time! Today i want to talk about marry and the Islam...

You may know that as married with one muslim man many things change in your daily life. Start for your clothes, the way you talk with your friends and treat them, your attitudes and how you see life, even when you are muslim your life become completly different. Specifically paki man. Maybe nowadays have many with open mind and bla bla bla..but they still prefer that wife convert to islam because of the future of the childs. They have onde way of see life and family completly different than the West. The culture, the food, how they treat the parents, sisters is soo different even for me that im muslim. Soo we fight too, doesn't means that the religion is the solution for you have happy marry with one paki, arab, wherever...the ponit is culture.

Islam maybe can help you and tell you how man and women should treat each other and do but my way of see the life had influence of my society not just of  my religion. Of corse if both have the same religion they have the same values, the same acttitudes, the same beliefs etc.. but his country is soo different and we shock because for exemple for him is not good i have man friends but for me i can if i have respect for myself and keep distance. Hang out in night UUUhhh its so dangerous even if i go with girls its not godd, womens in his country dont walk in night ..what can i do if i likee??! He like food with many chilly but i dont, he see very well every day before i go university my clothes... and so on

 
There must be a mutual agreement for we stay together all this time. Not just love, respect, religion but undrstand that we habe different backgrounds and points of view, not to say that the way I see life is the right and his wrong, but different... is not easy at all but if we want so stay together is necessary.

 

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