My Wedding

Hellooo everyone !

Im already told you that im married. Well my husband is form Pakistan, was very dificult for me in the begining because my family didn't accept our relationship.

My mum isn't muslim and my dad dint practise the religion it means that he doesn't pray, but he respect other things same like dont eat pork. In Portugal and in general of europe countries, paki people dont have nice image. The person when think in paki remember, terrorism, and bad actions about Islam, my family isn't different. So when i told with who i love, my mum was the first person to say : NO WAY! 

Yeah. she doesn't like paki or indian because they are so much different! She told many many bad experiences with this people...and i just think : "OMG why i told them!! Really, even my dad that have "open mind" ask why i didnt choose or fall in love for other person. Helloo! If 20% of person are bad doesn't means 80% are bad too. They are right in some aspects but not in all. In that day i feel so bad, i cried so much ahahah but i didnt give up just because of them reaction. Maybe my love become more stronger than before xD normally happen this. Hi's name Kami. We meet because we have mutual friends, he start send me message and he did'nt tell me how he get my number, well we meet same like friends but i see that we want more than that. In 4 months we decide get married. Then problems start. My Family reaction. Then didn't agree. They want i finish my university first and then thing if Kami really love me. But we didn't want to wait because we dont want make haram things so if we married everything become halal. Im fought every day with my parents, They hide my documents for i didnt run of home. But i did. Was very difficult for me run fo home, but i did'nt find other solution for my problem. I left one letter in my parents room where i explain why i did that and ask apologise for my act and call for one taxi, put my all bags inside the taxi and go for my new home. In that night they call so much, sending messages for i come back and i just cried, cried and Kami give me many support. Saying that one day thay will forgive me. Before all this happen i try that me Kami talk with my dad but my dad didn't want conversation that's why i see that his actitude was simple prejudice with Kami and this was my choise but i don't advise others to do the same. Now we are very happy together, and my all family accept him. My grandmother treat him same like her son, this make me feel "بہت بہت خوش" happy :P

My husband go many times in my parents home, we eat together, he talk many times on the phone with them (but is portuguese is not good at all) ahaha but he try. We have to fight when we want something, broke my heart when i hurted my parents but in this case was necessary because the stereotypes on his mind were impossible to broke.